My boyfriend who I have been going out with for two years, would like us to get married. However, I am not sure that it is such a good a thing. There are many pros and cons to the arrangement and I want to make sure that I get it right. My boyfriend is making certain conditions when it comes to getting married. For instance he would like me to give up working for London escorts. I am not sure that I am ready for that and working for the most soothing London escorts agency is still the main source of my income.
On top of that he would like to move into my flat. I have this lovely two bedroom flat which I bought with my earnings from London escorts. At the moment my boyfriend is doing this flat share with a mate. It is okay for him and I am not sure that I want to look after him. As it is, his laundry always seems to be in my washing machine and I could only imagine what it would be like if he moved in with me. There is no way that I would have time to look after him and focus on a new career after London escorts.
We have talked about, and I have told him that I want him to contribute towards the flat. I paid a lot of money, and if he wants to move in, he has to pay part of what I paid for it. I worry about ending up out of pocket should the marriage fail. It has happened to other girls at London escorts, and I don’t want it to happen to me. I would have to start all over again and I worked really hard at London escorts to get that little flat. In many ways I guess that it feels like he is trying to take over my life, and I am not sure that it is working for me.
I love it when we spend time together, but I am not going to leave London escorts for him. Like so many other London escorts I would probably have to take on a low paid job and that is the last thing I want to do. Sue, he is a bit jealous of my job, but it is what has given me such a good lifestyle. If I gave my job up, I would not be able to afford many of the good things in life that I enjoy at the moment.
Besides, should a marriage come with terms and conditions? I don’t think that it should. If your man makes his marriage proposal into some kind of deal, you should really ask yourself if the marriage is for you at all. I am not sure that it is the right way to go about things. Too many girls at London escorts have ended up being broken hearted when they have jumped into marriages without thinking. Maybe one day I will get married, but with all of his terms and conditions, I am not sure that this is the right man to call my husband.